Tuesday, April 21, 2009


So I was debating or not if I should blog this & I finally made up my mind to just let it go. It's part of the "progression" process...thats a good one. Ok so like I stated with the previous post me & Jayy had a good Friday nite, and Saturday morning was looking good. It was the usual routine slept in till about 8:30am or so, cleaned, watched some TV and then....there goes that "booming" it gets louder & louder and now it has just stopped infront of our apartment....hmmm.....it's now about 11am who else "booms" that loud & this early in the day? Guess who? No SURPRISE it's Jayy's brother's (friends) who happen to be my cousins. Anyhow I being the nice wife that I am, and also not really wanting to hang out with them at the apartment I let Jayy go with them. We decide to meet up about 5-6pm for my 1st cousins daughters b-day. So off Jayy goes, and off I go getting ready to do what we do best (me & my sisters) watch some RUGBY!!
Anyhow to get to the point before i end up blogging a few pages. Jayy tells me where he's at to go get him to go to the b-day party. We find him and we're waiting & waiting & waiting for him. Now to us it felt like 10-20minutes (us meaning me & my sisters) at this point I'm getting a little irritated...I mean how hard is it to put the bottle down, say bye and walk to the truck? Obviously a little to hard for Jayy. So before he could even reach the fence...uh I had busted a "U" and yelled out the window something very unappropriate to share on this, and drove off & left. Yup...I left "Baby jayy" standing there like an idiot infront of his friends as I was driving "bye...bye..." I know I know what you all must be thinking!! Anyhow "Baby Jayy" must've called me like 10times & each time I kept hanging up on him, and telling him I'm not going to pick him up!! So to make a long interesting story SHORT.....guess what happened? He showed up to the B-Day party & gave me his sad story!! No but really it was sad.....I couldn't believe I left him like that. How easy I let myself get lost in my ignorant prideful ways. Yea..I know he could've hurried it up a little, but how hard was it for me to tell him to hurry rather than to BEEP...BEEP "Bye you mother......" yea I have a lot of growing up to do!! Anyhow as usual Jayy accepted my apology & I accepted his but now I realize how sometimes I make small things big!!

2 comments:

Haloti and Sinai said...

I know what you mean about what to blog and what not to blog....and I figure, you know what? My life is what it is...nothing to hide. Ame, we are only human and as much as we try to 'be nice, be good' it's easy to get caught up in the moment. Thanks for sharing your experiences...it's funny 'cause others experience the same thing, but we just don't know it. Love you both!!!

IONGI FAMILY said...

IT HAPPENS SIS TO ALL OF US WEATHER PEOPLE WANT TO ADMIT IT OR NOT SOMETIMES U HAVE TO DO THAT FOR UR HUBBY TO REALIZE OMG HELLO MY WIFE HAS A POINT TOO LOL THANKS FOR SHARING