Monday, June 8, 2009

When it RAINS it POURS but.......

After the STORM the earth is "refreshed & cleansed"!! By the pictures below our "last nite" at our apartment & we decided to leave with a bang<----we'll at least the boys wanted to.

So by my post title "when it RAINS it POURS" of course that's in reference with what we go through sometimes in life. After the whole "tazer" issue with Jayy I was telling my supervisor about the incident only to get a call from Jayy that day when he was picking up our truck from the impound that our right side mirror was hanging off. Ok we'll on my police reports it states very clearly NO DAMAGES on the vehicle being impounded, on the portion from the towing company when they picked up the truck NO DAMAGES & when they were taking it that day there was NO DAMAGES...so what the *^%$# is going on? So I call the towing place the guy there is an IDIOT!! The owners of the towing company have NO PROTOCOLS when a vehicle is damaged by them ..... like let me see..... when your driver tries to climb off a vehicle and thinks the side mirror can hold his damn body, or when you have yard you take these vehilces that are being released to your posses ion & you have no type of INSURANCE to cover your mui WHEN SOMETHING happens!! Urgh....he is sooooooo LUCKY I don't want my husband to go back to prison cause otherwise I would send him to his "rented" yard & give him something to "cry" about!! Don't use KING FISH TOWING they SUCK!!

Ok did that just confuse you? Anyhow during the whole trying to get that done & situated....we decided to move back to my parents & that decision was helped with the fact that our landlord....bless her..got complaints from our neighbors about the noise, the cops and probably the tongan boys they saw around our front yard just hanging out....and so on & we were notified she was raising the rent or we can cut our lease sooner.... boooo......and these are the neighbors that my poor husband talks to when he sees them outside...and all along they didn't even like us...we'll there LOSS ....j/p I was pretty bummed but I couldn't blame them we didn't really fit in the little "cozy" neighborhood. When I got the call from Jayy about this news I couldn't even stay at work (JetBlue) all I could think about was being by Jayy. Was this really happening? Where would we be able to find an apartment this cheap, two bedrooms, close to my parents, and in the Valley? NO WHERE!!

Anyhow before I got home I get a call from my sister Mino and I'm just in tears TRIPPEN out...to much to deal with & then what she said to me next calmed me...she had told me Jayy had called her not knowing what to do, and feeling bad & what she told him (cause she knows me so well) she told Jayy "Just let her go off on you..." <-----yea what an advice!! But she was right that's what I needed, when I got home off I went with "if you would just...." but "no all you want to do is ....." and "now what...Jayy" I started from the music bumping cause Jayy & his friends think there music they listen to is what ALL my neighbors like to relax to, or like the "tazer" incident my neighbors love the "flashing lights" and barking dogs, or our family that usually consist of me & him becomes me, him and a few more "sons". Do I sound a little irritated? We'll in all honesty I WAS<-----but not no more!! I've realized you have to take the "bad" with the "good", or like my Dad puts it after a trial, and the test of ones faith.....comes the blessing, and really I LOVE all the boys & wouldn't have changed our stay in our apartment for anything!! So after my lil tantrum with my poor husband....I sucked it up and realized what I SHOULD be grateful for! Just appreciate the last 6months that I had in this cute, cheap apartment to call me & Jayy's "first home" together. Take the memories that were made there. I also realized (this last past Friday from the movie UP) to look at "trials" that one may have in life & face it with an "adventurous" mind frame...I know it may seem weird reading it but watching that little movie made soooooo much sense! So with this little move, and the farewell to our little apartment and like we've come to realize is this is just another chapter in our "interesting" book of life ending, and yet another chapter to begin!! I have looked at us moving...which is back to my parents (thank goodness for them) as a blessing...being the oldest girl I feel that it would be my spot to help them out right now, and be close to my Dad also the $$$$ we will get to save, and pay off some bills, nothing beats time with my sisters & parents at home...although Mino & her cutie lil troop will be moving out to there new spot, me, Lu & Ana will be together & I know my Dad's loving it cause his #1 will be home with him ha..ha...that would be me & Jay !! All in all its sad to say goodbye...but I'm excited for what lies ahead for me & Jayy and maybe next time the next lil home we'll call our own will be a HOUSE big enough for me & Jayy and all our "extra" vehicles & "sons"!! So let it rain & pour because I'm ready for the "rainbow" and the "refreshing, cleansing" feeling at the end of the STORM!!

4 comments:

Morena said...

awww ok I was wondering why you were moving...anyhoo after the trial cometh the blessings and yours is on it's way...keep your head up sis..Love yah muchos!!!

IONGI FAMILY said...

May ur rainbow come sooner then Expected because you both soooo deserve it!!! love ya sis!!!

ANNA BANANA said...

that's a sweet way to look at life. I'm glad u realized to not sweat the small stuff!! :) happy day!!

VEEYAH said...

Oh...I'm so glad I came across your blog Ame!! I loved reading this...I love how you are always just KEEPIN' IT REAL! Didn't even know ya'll had your own lil' place for a bit...and I gotta find out more about this "tazing" ordeal..hahahaha! I could totally hear your voice as I read this...laughing my face off too!Your place sounds a lot like my bro and his wife's place with the "extras", and they are now back at momma's house for the time being...but it's all good...like you said, they'd have it no other way! We live and we learn girl!! Love your guts! -VEE